La Jolla Divorce Mediation

Attorney and CDFA® guidance when the finances are complex

I help La Jolla couples resolve divorce through attorney-led mediation, including property division, support and parenting decisions. When a business, stock compensation, real estate or retirement accounts complicate the finances, I model the options so both of you can understand the choices before reaching an agreement. As your neutral attorney-mediator, I help you work through those decisions and draft your settlement agreement.

I attended La Jolla Elementary, La Jolla Country Day School and Muirlands Junior High, and graduated magna cum laude from La Jolla High School. My parents owned the La Jolla Blue Book for nearly 40 years, including during the 1980s.

California attorney since 2004 · 2,500+ mediations · Certified Divorce Financial Analyst® (CDFA®)

Scott Levin, Esq., CDFA®, San Diego divorce mediator
285+ five-star reviews across Google, Yelp, Avvo and FacebookSuper Lawyers, Family Law, 2024–2027“Scott was a great help to a complicated situation.” — Robert G.Read reviews ↓

Divorce mediation for La Jolla couples—in person or online

You can meet with me by Zoom, in person at my Scripps Ranch office, or use a combination of both. My office is at 9820 Willow Creek Road, Suite 410, San Diego, CA 92131, near Interstate 15 and Carroll Canyon Road, about 20 minutes from La Jolla outside rush hour. Both spouses participate in the mediation, and I remain neutral throughout.

La Jolla divorces tend to involve the assets covered below: equity compensation from a biotech or technology employer, a medical or professional practice, a home that has appreciated for many years, and retirement accounts built over a long career. None of that rules out mediation. It means the financial analysis has to be done carefully, and done once, so both of you are working from the same numbers.

Complex finances we work through

RSUs and stock options

Grants that straddle the marriage or the date of separation must be split between community and separate property before they can be divided. Then come tax at vesting and price risk. I help you write that into the agreement precisely. Dividing RSUs in divorce.

A business or practice

Ownership, the community interest, goodwill, cash flow and buyout terms all need answers. I help you agree on an approach and model the options. A formal valuation, when needed, comes from an outside valuator; we discuss how that will be arranged before proceeding. Divorcing with a business.

Separate property and tracing questions

A home owned before marriage and paid down with community income, or an inheritance deposited into a joint account, raises tracing and accounting questions. Working through them together is usually less costly than arguing them. Is a house owned before marriage community property?

Real estate and retirement

A dollar of home equity, a dollar in a pre-tax 401(k) and a dollar in a brokerage account aren’t worth the same once taxes, liquidity and timing count. I lay the options side by side over the next several years.

One shared set of numbers

A shared financial analysis, prepared once and reviewed by both of you, can reduce duplicated work and keep the discussion on what’s fair rather than on whose numbers are right.

Outside specialists or independent advice may still be appropriate, and I’ll say when.

Parenting decisions alongside the financial agreement

If you have children, mediation also addresses how you will parent after separation. I help you work through the regular schedule, holidays, school breaks and how you will make decisions for your children. We discuss child support alongside the parenting arrangements and financial information.

Learn more about parenting plan mediation and child custody mediation.

What clients say

Couples who worked through complex finances with Scott

Reviews from clients who worked through accounts, property and other financial decisions in mediation.

★★★★★

“Our situation was particularly unique because we had a number of complex financial assets that needed to be carefully evaluated and divided. Throughout the process, Scott's financial expertise proved invaluable for me.”
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Divorce is one of the most difficult and emotional experiences a family can go through, and we are incredibly grateful to have had Scott Levin guiding us through the process. From our very first meeting, Scott created an environment that felt respectful, balanced, and solution-focused. He was patient, compassionate to our specific and unique situations and genuinely invested in helping us navigate difficult conversations with clarity and dignity. Our situation was particularly unique because we had a number of complex financial assets that needed to be carefully evaluated and divided. Throughout the process, Scott's financial expertise proved invaluable for me. He was able to clearly explain complicated financial concepts, helping both of us understand the implications of different options and ensure that decisions were made thoughtfully and fairly. His ability to navigate both the emotional and financial aspects of divorce with equal skill gave us tremendous confidence during a process that could have otherwise felt overwhelming. Thanks to his guidance, expertise and calm presence, what could have been an even more highly contentious process became far more manageable that I ever expected. I left mediation feeling respected, informed and confident in the agreements that we reached. I would wholeheartedly recommend Scott Levin to anyone seeking a knowledgeable, fair and compassionate divorce mediator. His unique combination of interpersonal skill and financial expertise was invaluable and made a lasting difference during one of the most challenging chapters of our lives, and we are deeply thankful for his support.

Jessica H. · Yelp review

★★★★★

“His creativity when working on dividing assets and liabilities made an incredibly stressful situation less so.”
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Scott Levin guided my spouse and I through a genuinely difficult and drawn-out divorce mediation. There were many moments where resolution didn't seem to be viable, yet Scott stayed patient and steady through every delay and setback. His experience and knowledge of family law is invaluable. He truly is a peacekeeper! One of the things that stood out was his ability to read the room and adjust his approach as needed. Early on, he kept things low-key and gave both sides space to stay comfortable continuing in the process. His creativity when working on dividing assets and liabilities made an incredibly stressful situation less so. As we got closer to the finish line, he was very proactive in helping us reach an agreement. That kind of judgment, knowing when to hang back and when to step in, is a valuable skill in mediation. If you're dealing with a complicated or emotionally charged divorce, I can't recommend Scott highly enough. He got us to a fair resolution when it genuinely felt uncertain at times, and he did it with professionalism and skill throughout.

Lisa G. · Google review

★★★★★

“I was told repeatedly it would be absolutely impossible to mediate in my highly contentious divorce with decades together, a # of children, lots of accounts and properties…”
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I was told repeatedly it would be absolutely impossible to mediate in my highly contentious divorce with decades together, a # of children, lots of accounts and properties- it was overwhelming and typically is the kind of divorce that takes many many years and many 100s of 1000s of dollars. But then we found Scott. He was fair and respectful to both parties and most of all ensured that our kids would have the best outcome in this very sad breakup of our family. He kept it fair, affordable and quick. He is personable and he really cares. The mediators my friends have used in their own situations PALE in comparison to Scott Levin. My family has always been the most important thing in the world to me and our choice of mediator helped to keep us sane, calm and hopeful throughout this devastating situation in the middle of a pandemic. He allowed us to stagger visits so we did not need to be present together bc of the high conflict circumstances. Very grateful Scott Levin made the impossible possible, by guiding us through from start to finish!

The P. family · Google review

★★★★★

“He was great at posing questions about custody and finances that we hadn’t thought of. He made the process so easy and I feel like we were able to come up with an agreement that was a win-win for all parties.”
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Scott is a phenomenal mediator. From the initial consultation to the end of our dissolution Scott put us at ease through the legal process and helped us work through any sticking points in our mediation process. He was great at posing questions about custody and finances that we hadn’t thought of. He made the process so easy and I feel like we were able to come up with an agreement that was a win-win for all parties. Highly recommend Scott and San Diego Mediation!

Christina G. · Google review

Reviews describe individual clients’ experiences. Every family’s situation is different, and results vary.

How the process works

I guide the whole process as a neutral for both of you. I provide and review the financial disclosure forms; you each complete and exchange your own disclosures. I facilitate our meetings, draft and revise the marital settlement agreement, open the case when needed, and prepare and submit the agreed judgment paperwork. More about divorce mediation in San Diego.

In most cases the judge approves an agreed judgment without either of you appearing. If your case is likely to need an appearance, I’ll tell you at the start.

La Jolla cases, like those from nearby Pacific Beach, University City and Clairemont, are ordinarily filed at the Central Division, 1100 Union Street, downtown San Diego.

Generally, at least one spouse must have lived in California for six months and in the county for three months before filing for divorce. I confirm filing and jurisdiction requirements at intake.

California also requires at least six months before marital status can end. When that period starts depends on how the case is filed (with a joint petition, for example, it runs from filing), and I’ll explain which applies to you.

Flat-fee mediation

My mediation packages are flat-fee, with a defined scope. Before you commit, I explain what the package includes and what it doesn’t. If you need more sessions or services beyond that scope, I tell you before that work begins.

Some cases require a separate retirement division order or help from an appraiser, business valuator or tax advisor. My written agreement explains the scope of my mediation services. If additional work is needed, we discuss how it will be arranged and any additional fees before proceeding.

Larger estates sometimes need more sessions. We talk about that at the start, and again if the work grows.

We can meet at my office at 9820 Willow Creek Road, Suite 410, San Diego, by Zoom, or a mix of both.

Why I practice this way

Earlier in my career I represented clients in court. I saw how often litigation deepened conflict and drained what a family had built, and that is why I focus on mediation.

Today I help couples resolve their divorce outside the courtroom. I don’t represent clients in contested litigation.

As your mediator I’m neutral and don’t represent either of you individually. You’re each welcome to have your own attorney review the agreement.

If you want advice for only one spouse, I also work separately as a consulting attorney, after a conflict check. I can’t mediate and advise one side in the same case.

Common questions

Can mediation work for La Jolla couples with complex assets?

Yes. A business, stock compensation, multiple properties or substantial retirement accounts does not by itself prevent mediation. Both spouses need to provide complete financial disclosures and be willing to negotiate. When a formal valuation or specialized tax advice is needed, we discuss involving an outside professional.

Can you value our business?

I can model the numbers and help you agree on how a valuation should be approached. A formal valuation comes from an outside specialist; we discuss how that will be arranged before proceeding.

Can you advise just one of us?

Yes, as a consulting attorney, if I’m not your mediator and after a conflict check.

Do we have to meet in person?

No. We can meet by Zoom, at my Scripps Ranch office in San Diego, or use a combination of both. Many La Jolla couples do at least part of their mediation by video.

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Start with a conversation

A free consultation is the easiest way to see whether mediation fits. Call 858-293-1410 or schedule online.

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