San Diego Divorce Mediation. Divorce Differently, Without the Court Battle.
Resolve your divorce with an experienced California family law attorney and Certified Divorce Financial Analyst. Work together to reach agreements about your children, finances, property, and future — without the expense and conflict of a traditional court battle.
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In person in San Diego · Online throughout California · (858) 293-1410
Professional Credentials & Recognition
Family Law · 2024–2027
Flat-fee divorce mediation, including your settlement agreement and court paperwork through judgment. Verify Scott’s credentials →
I left the courtroom for mediation because I believed most families deserved a better way through divorce. I love helping people solve difficult problems, especially the ones they didn’t think they could solve together. I’ve been a California attorney since 2004, and I’ve learned that almost everything is figure-out-able.
You don’t need a perfect plan, and you don’t need to agree on everything before we start. Working through the disagreements is my job, and honestly, it’s the part I enjoy most. If you both want to reach an agreement, that’s enough to begin.
— Scott

Meet your mediation team
Experienced enough to explain the law.
Human enough to help you use it.
Two perspectives. One collaborative approach.
Scott Levin is a California family-law attorney, neutral mediator and CDFA®. He began practicing law in 2004 and has devoted his practice to helping families resolve divorce issues outside the courtroom.
Mary Levin, Co-Parenting Specialist®, can join the process when parents want help creating a practical, child-centered plan. Together, Scott and Mary offer complementary perspectives without turning the process into a fight between two sides.
For parents, that means the schedule, the support numbers and the day-to-day co-parenting realities get worked out in one process — legal, financial and child-centered questions each handled by someone who knows that terrain well.
A different way to separate
Attorney-led neutral mediation for a different way to separate.
Divorce does not have to become a courtroom fight. We organize the issues, explain the choices and help you work through them one decision at a time.
Scott guides both of you through settlement negotiations as a neutral attorney-mediator — parenting, support, property and everything in between. When you reach terms, he drafts your Marital Settlement Agreement himself, and our team prepares and files the required court documents through judgment.
He represents neither spouse individually. For couples who reach a complete agreement, the divorce can generally be completed without a court appearance.
Financial expertise built into the process
As a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA®) who also teaches community property as an adjunct law professor, Scott answers the legal and the financial questions in the same conversation. That matters most for couples with businesses, real estate, pensions and retirement accounts, stock compensation, or complicated support questions — you see what each option really means before you agree.
How we help
Solutions for the issues that make divorce complicated
Help for any family law and divorce issue — choose the kind of help your situation requires. Some couples need a complete mediation. Others need focused advice about one issue or a review of a proposed settlement.
Divorce Mediation
Resolve parenting, property, support and paperwork issues with one neutral attorney-mediator.
Property and Asset Division
Understand homes, businesses, retirement, taxes and other financial decisions before you agree.
Child Custody and Parenting Plans
Create a parenting plan that fits your children and your family instead of starting with a generic schedule.
Child and Spousal Support
Work through guideline child support and the spousal support options — monthly payments, an agreed end date or a buyout — with the numbers in view.
Prenuptial Agreements
Draft, review or mediate a California agreement with clear advice about timing and enforceability.
Consulting Attorney Services
Receive focused legal advice as one spouse, without hiring a litigation attorney for the entire case.
Process and fees
From your first meeting to your final judgment.
This is more than facilitating settlement discussions. The objective is an enforceable California divorce judgment — reached without the expense and conflict of contested litigation. When you reach a complete agreement, your divorce can generally be finished without either of you ever appearing in court.
- Start with a free 15-minute call. If mediation fits, the mediation agreement identifies the flat fee and the mediation meetings it includes — before any work begins.
- Financial disclosures. We provide and review the required disclosure forms; you and your spouse complete and exchange them, so decisions are made with the full picture.
- Mediation meetings. Joint sessions by Zoom or in person to work through parenting, support, property and retirement decisions, one at a time.
- Your settlement agreement. Scott drafts the Marital Settlement Agreement himself and revises it until it says what you both agreed.
- Court forms, filing and judgment. Our team prepares and files the required court documents and guides your case through judgment.
Clear terms before you begin
Our divorce mediation flat fee covers the mediation meetings specified in your agreement, preparation of the Marital Settlement Agreement, and preparation and filing of required court forms through judgment. We explain the fee and what it includes before you decide whether to proceed. Additional mediation meetings beyond the included number are billed at the agreed hourly rate; court filing fees are separate.
- Joint meetings by Zoom or in person
- Parenting, support, property and retirement decisions
- Written settlement agreement
- Court forms prepared and filed through judgment
- Independent legal review encouraged when it helps you feel secure
Client experiences and common questions
What families say about working with Scott
Feeling heard
“both parties felt heard and respected”
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Going through a divorce is an emotionally taxing experience, but having Scott as our mediator made all the difference. From the very beginning, Scott exhibited a high level of professionalism, fairness, and empathy. He took the time to truly understand our unique situation and needs, ensuring that both parties felt heard and respected throughout the entire process. His ability to maintain a calm and composed atmosphere helped to alleviate much of the stress and tension we were feeling.
Scott’s guidance and expertise were invaluable in reaching a fair and amicable agreement. He navigated the complexities of our case with skill and provided us with the support we needed to move forward. I am incredibly grateful for his dedication and kindness during this difficult time, and would highly recommend Scott to anyone in need of a compassionate and skilled divorce mediator.
Financial clarity
“He explained the issues so clearly”
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We came to Scott Levin for help with our divorce after our financial advisor and CPA referred us to him. Our two most important finance people independently recommended Scott, so we felt good going into the process with him, knowing we needed someone who could navigate particularly complicated issues. We have deferred retirement compensation, startup investments and other illiquid assets, stock compensation, and real estate investments, along with retirement accounts and a mix of traditional assets. We worried about how to divide everything fairly—and what it would mean for our futures.
Scott’s expertise in handling complex financial matters was exactly what we needed. You would expect someone with decades of family law experience to understand these issues. It’s another thing entirely to explain them in a way that makes sense to people who know nothing about divorce or property division laws. Scott was exceptional at both.
He explained the issues so clearly that we really just felt comfortable from the very beginning and throughout. I was able to consider options much more quickly because I understood them, and he never once made either of us feel overwhelmed.
One time, I did get a little overwhelmed, and he went into his other office, came back with some chocolates and Diet Cokes, and had us sit on the couch to take a breather for a minute. He has a sense for what we need, and he brought it at the right time.
He walked us through the details of property division, helped us understand the tax implications, made sure our financial advisor understood the agreed-upon transfers between our accounts, when to start them, and that we both felt secure about our financial futures.
He knew a ton about mortgage loan assumptions and showed us each what taxes we would owe if we sold property together while married versus what those taxes would be later if we sold properties as single.
He approached everything calmly and professionally, and it was clear he genuinely cared about helping us reach an agreement that worked for both sides. Thanks to Scott, we avoided a costly, stressful court battle, and we can both move forward with confidence.
If you have complicated finances and want a mediator who really knows the ins and outs of property division, retirement, and support, I highly recommend Scott and his team.
Complex situations
“helped us move forward”
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I wish we had found Scott much sooner in our divorce process. After 1.5 years of dealing with lawyers and the court system, with no progress at all (and lots of money spent), we were referred to Scott. He patiently listened to both sides and negotiated compromises that helped us agree on a settlement. Having a knowledgeable, neutral party who advocated for both of us as needed (and had the best interest of the children in mind) helped us move forward. I am truly thankful.
Reviews describe individual clients’ experiences. Every family’s situation is different, and results vary.
Common questions
How does divorce mediation work?
Scott works as one neutral attorney-mediator for both spouses. You exchange financial disclosures, meet together (by Zoom or in person) to work through parenting, support and property decisions, and Scott drafts the Marital Settlement Agreement you reach. Our team then prepares and files the required court forms through judgment. He represents neither spouse individually.
What is included in the flat fee?
The divorce mediation agreement identifies the flat fee and what it covers before work begins: the mediation meetings specified in your agreement, preparation of the Marital Settlement Agreement, and preparation and filing of required court forms through judgment. If more time is needed, it is billed at the hourly rate stated in your agreement; court filing fees are separate.
Do we need court appearances?
For couples who reach a complete agreement, the divorce can generally be completed without a court appearance. We prepare your settlement agreement and the required court forms, handle filing, and guide the process through judgment.
What if we don’t agree on everything yet?
You don’t need an agreement with your spouse to take the first step — working through the differences is what mediation is for. Start with a free 15-minute call to see whether the process fits your situation.
How long does it take?
Most clients reach a full settlement in about 10 weeks, although every case is different. California’s six-month waiting period still applies before a divorce can become final.
Ready for a more constructive divorce?
Book a free 15-minute call. Tell me where things stand, and I’ll explain how mediation could work for the two of you and what it would cost.
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